Life happens. Distance separates. Children grow up. Jobs come and go. Love waxes and wanes. Men don't do what they're supposed to do. Hearts break. Parents die. Colleagues forget favors. Careers end. BUT... Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach. When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you... or come in and carry you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, mothers, grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life! The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Every day, we need each other still Pass this on to all the women who help make your life meaningful. I just did. Short and very sweet: There are more than twenty angels in this world. Ten are peacefully sleeping on clouds. Nine are playing... And one is reading this at this moment

ONLY GOD KNOWS

1.life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret,you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21.Burn the candles,use the nice sheets,wear the fancy lingerie.Don't save it for a special occasion.Today is special.
22. Over prepare,then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now.Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words:"In five years,will this matter?"
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything.Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is,it will change.
32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick.Your friends will.Stay in touch.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is,not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.Make it memorable.
38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.
41. Don't audit life.Show up and make the most of it now.
42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful,beautiful or joyful.
43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
45. The best is yet to come.
46. No matter how you feel,get up, dress up and show up.
47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
48. If you don't ask,you don't get.
49. Yield.
50. Life isn't tied with a bow,but it's still a gift.

MY DAD MY WORLD

this is my blog for my dad who passed away a year ago i miss him so much.he died of a massive heart attack i never made funeral or never got to say goodbye i didnt because i just had twin preemie boys in hosp in america who were almost 3 mths early and were in da hosp for 3 mths in da i.c.u so it just wasnt possible to make it ...but i miss him like if there was part of me gone with him !!it will always be a regret for me .....(to be continued)

ABOUT ME ! ! !

 not a socializer
nor cheater
nor faker
nor ignorant
not rude
i hate coffee
not much television
videogames [drive me mad]
soap shows{not really}
fake friends [no thanks]
shoes [nope] !!
mani/pedicures {no thanks}
flash cars nope !!
big house nah !!!
routine {dont need one} i am one
high maintenance {no way}
oh dat fucker snopp dogg discusting {ugliest man ever }
me ...well im just a plain jane

THIS DEFINES ME !!!!

ireland
alan
our 4 children
handbags
videocamera
digital camera
happiness
truthfulness
im opinionated also
im a push over
cant/dont say "NO"
im judgemental
honesty
march of dimes
heart foundation
like bebo
curious
ive 3 yahoo;s
photos ive millions
scrapbook stuff
re-search
irish tea
magners/bulmers
books
babies
48 hrs love it
baking
dr phil
sylvia brown{physic}
country music
charity like to give/donate
romance
drink in doors myself
wash my floors at night with
front door open to the world
house lights off stero on
beer /drink by fire
silver jewellery
true stories
toiletries cream,lotions,soaps,ect
chick flicks
cher
tina turner
lip gloss{mary K}
walk around bare footed
reading when ive time
dicipline my kids my way{4get the time out}
strong person stronger than i knew
can see the glass either way
half full -half empty depends!!!
nurses{admiration}
make-up [ive loads]
make up bags{tons of them too}
cds all country ...........
reality shows
THIS IS JUST ME !!!